Sexuality

82% of adults use sex toys and other adult sex products. That is what Adam & Eve’s Great American Sex Survey shows among more than 1000  adults from America.

Adam & Eve, America’s most trusted source for adult products, discovered that either alone or with a partner, adult toy use is widely accepted and on the upswing. In fact, an additional 3.2% of respondents said they intend to use adult products in the future.

Nearly all of the respondents (94 percent) said they think adult products can be part of a healthy relationship.

Among respondents’ favorite adult products were toys (87 percent) and personal lubricants (79 percent). After these, the next most selected products were adult videos (72 percent), sexy lingerie (66 percent) and massage oils (64 percent).

Sex and relationship expert Dr. Kat Scarbo says, “Adding toys to a couple’s bedroom repertoire can improve communication and overall satisfaction with sex. I suggest toys and adult videos to clients to give them permission to explore what works for them in the bedroom. Overwhelmingly, nearly all my clients have reported that incorporating these items has lead to healthier, happier relationships.” 

“These results reveal an increasingly positive attitude toward sex and sexuality,” Chad Davis (Marketing director for Adam and Eve) said. “We are very encouraged by these findings since they bode well for our business. Adam & Eve has nearly 40 years of experience and over 10 million customers who can attest to the joy adult toys bring them.”

From PG flirting tactics to R-rated sex tricks, these must-try ideas are guaranteed to put you in the mood. Try them tonight—and thank us in the morning.

Slip into something unexpectedly sexy.
Sure, sexy lingerie is, well, sexy. But another surprisingly sexy sight to guys is you—freshly showered, no makeup, says relationship expert Lainie Speiser, author of Hot Games. Who can resist a woman who’s just soaped, shaved and shampooed herself to perfection? If you live with your guy, take your time and make a ritual out of your shower. Leave the bathroom door cracked so he can catch a glimpse of you slathering lotion on your body. If you’re dating, greet him at the door just out of the shower, with your hair loosely tied back, and wear something feminine like a clingy spaghetti-strap slip.

Give him goose bumps.
Vixenish back scratching is best left to romance novels and porn; a better way to stimulate your guy is with a light touch. The next time you’ve having sex, wrap your arms around him and gently drag your nails across his back, butt or thighs from top to bottom, applying as little pressure as possible. The slight touch will send shivers down his spine…and enhance the feeling of everything else.

Sneak in double entendres.
Want to get your guy’s attention? Try using suggestive words—the kind with dual meanings—mixed into normal conversation, says relationship expert Steve Santagati, of badboysfinishfirst.com. Whether it’s your first or your 90th date, it’s a great way to get your guy thinking about sex. Ask him for a back rub because your neck is stiff. Or have him help you fill in a crossword puzzle that’s too hard. We know—it sounds like a ridiculous plan….. read further on Sexyke.com

When you are dating online, there is always a chance that you get in contact with someone that doesn’t really live next around the corner. Assume you fall in love and are into a relationship. How do you handle a relationship like that ? Here you will find some advantages and disadvantages.

Advantage
Is a normal relationship taken your breath away in general and do you like your own freedom, than a LAT-relationship is something for you. You are with some one you like, have sex with and even can shop with him or her ones in a while, but there is no one that disturbs you in your daily routine. Very handy.

A LAT is somehow comparable with a vacation love. Everytime you see eachother it is an exciting advanture. Like some sort of summer love, where you go further with the love where you have left it.

Disadvantage
It can be frustrating that the person you love isn’t there more often then the person is there. Mostly the possibility is not there to see that other one on moments you have the needs for it. You can fill in some needs yourself, we  guess. That is a thing you have to be know of when having a LAT relation.

Making time for eachother can be a problem also. You try to see one and another as many times as possible, but the travelling is costing time, money and energy. What’s more that it is hard to pick weekends where you are both available.

Sometimes it will be hard to stay need. The thoughts that he or she will never find out that you are having sex with someone else is always present. Doubts are a part of it also. You can never find out what the other is doing with who and what time.

No words, but action
When you want to keep up with a living apart together relationship, you need to let the other person know that you miss him or her. Because you can’t see each other that often if you would want to, you have to let go of the kissing and cuddling all the time. This are signales that you love each other, just like having sex. So the only way to let you partner know that you miss each other is just by saying it.

Temporarily fase
Plan fun stuff regurarly wich you can do together, like vacations. Is it going well for some time, talk about a movement. A LAT relation doesn’t mean it never have to change. It can be on a temporary fase.

Stay positive
It is very appealing to do nothing if the other is far away, but stay positive. Try to be strong and optimistic against your lover. He or she has to miss you also ! If you show your partner that you are strong and are prepared to make some efforts, then that will be appreciated.

To be short : In love is everything possible. Does the love of your life really lives on the other side of the country or even the world, be happy. You have found him or her, while others didnt.

Sex is exciting on places where you have a big risk to get caught naked while doing it, but a german couple went over the line.

The couple played a passioned love game in the middle of the stadium of the AWD – Arena of soccerclub Hannover 96, according to the Bild.

The couple whas caught while ex-soccer player Clause Brune whas organizing a tour to a group of tourists.

Brune could not believe his own eyes. “There where children in the group, so we turn around very fast and walked on.”

When the couples noticed that they where caught while having sex, they where gone with the wind.

Cybersex is a virtual sex encounter which two or more persons connected remotely via computer networks send each other sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. While your personal sex life you can encounter everything but don’t use any computer network, atleast that whas 25-30 years ago.

Many people online have the live sex entered there lives and enjoy the technology of it very much. Almost 25 million people around the world enjoy cyber sex on a daily base. While more then 65 million people have enjoyed sex on the internet regurarly and an even 150 million people have tried it for atleast ones.

Live sex is more excepted each year and more people are enjoying it. Many females, males and couples are addding the webcam feature in there own private bedrooms. Some of them are making a decent amount of money with it while having fun.

Study shows that, while 98% of the participants denies, most of them are ashamed to admit they interact on the internet.

Many of the enjoyers are going to the regular paysites for their sexual relieve. 90% are visiting those sites just for the normal masturbate sessions. Many of those siteshave specialized in certain fields like live sex with Asian Girls or Mature Females. One of the biggest webcam content provider in the adult scene is the Livejasmin Group.

An astonishing 10% (talking about 500.000-800.000) sexual active persons are looking for the so called spycam action. They like to being watched by complete strangers.

More and more women are allowing the cyber sex in there bedroom for their pleasure and connect with other couples or females.

Estimated is that in 2015 almost 1/6 of world population are having or did try cyber sex in their lives when the internet is more common to use then it allready is.

Pornography has been called technology’s “quiet pioneer,” but it isn’t just sex that’s changing tech.

While networks like Facebook and Twitter have changed the way we interact socially, new technologies have also changed the way we engage sexually.

We’ve identified seven tech-driven trends that have affected sex in this digital age–from sex toys to online dating, pornography to new ways of engaging in (cyber) sexual acts.

View our list, then tell us how you think technology has changed sex.

The Internet is both an information and pornography super highway. By some metrics, some 12% of all sites on the web are pornographic.

Adult entertainment providers like Playboy have repeatedly leveraged new tech to their advantage. In 1982, to keep pace with demand, the company launched Playboy TV, and in 1989 the magazine became the first men’s publication with a Braille edition.

For its June 2010 issue, Playboy even featured a 3D centerfold. “What would people most like to see in 3D?” asked Playboy founder Hugh Hefner. “Probably a naked lady.”

Porn is also becoming more “graphic” than ever before: first came HD TV, with its high resolution images, and now, as 3D TV gains traction, adult entertainment companies are beginning to venture into 3D porn.

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Teaching and porn are transferable skills, says the department head outed as a star of X-rated films. Helen Rumbelow meets the man in question.

Porn is obsessed by double lives. The uptight librarian, the well muscled firefighter, the prim teacher: their work-life balance invariably means letting off steam in extraordinary ways when they get home.

For the last year of his time as head of department at a respected London secondary school, Ben Garrett was living a real-life version of this porn fantasy.

By day he taught children religion, morals and sex education. But he spent his weekends and half-terms being filmed for hardcore porn movies.

He was finally busted a few weeks ago when a student chanced on photographs of his teacher on a stripping website.

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Amsterdam – For the first time a porn festival will be held in The Netherlands, which is only accessible for women. The festival, Cum Shots, take place during the Amsterdam Gay Prid on 31th of July, announced the organization sunday.

CumShots is focussed on openminded women, lesbians, bi-sexuals, queers and transgendered. This group is always left outside according to the organization if it is about porn, because this is mostly aimed at a male audience.

According to Dewi Vrenegoor, one of the organizators, many women don’t recognize themselves in the mainstream porn movies. “We want to show that there are good pornmovies with Cum Shots, for people with an explicite sexual preference that is outside the normal ways we know. There is porn where we can get satisfaction out.”

During the festival the lesbian porn road movie “Too Much Pussy” is going in premiere.

A DARWIN mother has called on the Northern Territory Government to ban topless sunbathing at Darwin’s Waterfront, and she has been backed up by several other members of the public who yesterday complained to the NT News.

The mother has written to Minister for Children Kon Vatskalis calling for him to step in and force the topless tourists to cover up.

“Darwin mothers are sick to death of taking their young children to the wave pool and having s***s exposing their tits to them,” the mother wrote.

“Why do children, especially young boys, have (to) watch grown men deliberately walking past these girls and openly leering and staring at these s***s.

“I do not want my son learning how to be a disgusting pervert from these men and seeing this behaviour as normal.”

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On average, 29-year-olds have the most energy for sex, adults from 32-year-old are most adventorous in bed. From our 45th year the passional flame and the frequenty are gowing down.

45 and up find our sex life not that good then when they where 40 or younger. The lack of energy is an important cause of that effect. This results where seen after a British research by a food supplements supplier Kwai Garlic with 1752 people with the age of 40 and above.

Shorter

45-year-old are doing “it” just one time a week and if they have sex the passion is far away. 75% of the questioned thinks that the sex has lost the passion of the old days. An average love making session takes less time then it use to be.

Bedroom

The study shows that sex is limited in the bedroom with 85% of the questioned with the 40-ish. 64% answered that they only are having sex when the lights are out.

Skin

Besides the lack of energy, what happens to 33% of the persons, about 60% doesn’t feel they are sexy. Many 45+  feel fat and wrinkled. After the sex 60% are falling a sleep right away, more than 25% feels exhausted.